I am here to tell you not to worry, but to also not keep your feelings hidden. You always knew something wasn’t right and now right before a busy yachting season you’ve been told you have MRKH.
What the hell even is that right?
I get you never wanted children, but you hate to be told you cannot do things right?
You’ll be angry for a while and will take it out on the people that are closest to you. It’s ok I promise this feeling will pass. You’re going to push it all into the back of your mind for quite some time, but hey, we all deal with things differently. There’s no manual for this.
But you are so bold and brave, and I promise you when you finally start sharing your story with the world, so many amazing connections will come from this, and you’ll no longer feel so alone in this part of your journey.
You are going to connect with so many incredible women in the same position as you. 1 in 5000 might not be so common, but you will realize how common and small the world is once you open up.
There are some beautiful connections and friendships out there waiting for you.
You will become more open, vulnerable and authentic than you ever thought was possible as you have always kept your feelings so hidden. You are growing into such an incredible woman and a force to be reckoned with.
You will find love and peace with all this. You will create stronger friendship than you ever thought possible. You will even create your own businesses that allow you to retire from full time Cheffing. That idea of being a business woman is no longer a pipe dream.
It might not seem it now, with the haze of everything that’s running through your mind after just being diagnosed.
But your future is oh so bright. You are so loved by many and inspiring others daily by sharing your truth.
I promise that all the fears you have now will slowly disappear. Just remember to breathe, take time for yourself and to let others in. It’s all going to be more than ok x